BDSM sex toy set suitable for SM beginners
1.The most complete bondage set—UTIMI 11 bondage set, consisting of：
Paddle: it is a metal or wooden instrument used for stirring, moving forward or hitting. It is used in BDSM games. Unlike whips or floggers, paddles are generally considered safe and easy to use. But just like a spanking, there are risks to using them (yes, even though they are a ton of fun). Knowledge of safe paddling techniques and the different types of paddles can help you make this activity safe and enjoyable for all partners involved.
Nipple clamps: they work by applying pressure and restricting blood flow, which can make for a painful (and pleasurable) experience. People who like to use nipple clamps describe the sensation as an intense pinching. They are often associated with BDSM, as a dominant partner can put them on a submissive partner as a form of power play.
Wand: The wand is used in BDSM games. It is also used in kink scenes, especially forced orgasm scenes, orgasm denial and various bondage scenarios. The intense vibrations make it difficult to suppress orgasm, and therefore it is easy to use this type of product for several forms of pleasurable torture.
Cotton rope: cotton is great for most forms of bondage, except suspension. You can do a lot with it, it's cheap, washable, etc. It is used in BDSM games as a result of its usefulness. It is easy to cut and cheaper to replace than jute or hemp.
Whip: A sex whip or other impact toy is a toy that impacts the body with some degree of force - it can be "a symbol of power, control, and heightened sensations" and "ultimately leads to the feeling of surrender." The sting of a whip is often a feeling that resonates more deeply than many other sensations. It can be combined with other types of bondage, such as blindfolds and restraints. It is often used in BDSM games.
Drawstring Collar: In a BDSM context, a collar is a device made of any material that is worn around the neck by a person to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is referred to as a choker. It is used by both parties as a means of obtaining pleasure.
Cross strap: Used for hardcore BDSM enthusiasts. These handcuffs are the toughest available, and they are virtually inescapable. The hands are crossed, one over the other, before the handcuffs are applied. The hands can be positioned in front, on the back or above the head.
Ball gag: Ball gags are used for sexual games to reinforce the submissive role and prevent the wearer from speaking. Nowadays, people use ball gags as part of sexual role-play, especially in BDSM. They use them for various reasons that depend entirely on the sexual desires of the individual. Wearing a gag can increase the wearer's feeling of helplessness and fear in a BDSM scene, as they cannot speak during sexual activity, which some people enjoy."
Eye patch: it is often used in BDSM games. It's use as an erotic eye mask flirt that enslave the restraints for bondage fetish sex and blindfold.
Shackles for Feet: Foot shackles are commonly referred to as shackles, leg irons, or shackles and are a mechanism of physical restraint used on the feet or ankles to allow walking but prevent running and kicking. Partners involved in BDSM often practice them constantly to enjoy prolonged orgasm and erotic sex.
Handcuffs: They are used in BDSM games to restrain the lover's hands, and can be cuffed above the head or however they want. One sense is reinforced when another is taken away.
MOMENTS OF PASSION: With a mouth plug and blindfold, you have many options for temporarily shutting off your partner's senses to heighten your pleasure. It adds more fun to your foreplay flirtation and BDSM bedroom games.
ADJUSTABLE DESIGN: Ergonomically cut collar, handcuffs, ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs and door swing straps are fully adjustable to fit both men and women comfortably.
Portable and discreet: 11 pieces bondage accessories can be used alone or in various combinations. They also come in discreet black packaging for maximum privacy protection. Easy to use or easy to carry.
HIGH QUALITY MATERIAL: We make the sex toy with high quality nylon, neoprene and acrylic to provide you with optimal comfort and softness from the beginning.
2.How to prepare for BDSM play?
To ensure the best experience for both partners, preparation for BDSM play is essential. Essentially, a BDSM scene is a prepared area where your normal BDSM actions take place. It can take place in a variety of locations - your bedroom, a hotel room, or a special BDSM dungeon if you have access to one.
Have an open conversation with your partner: first of all, it is important that you talk openly with your partner before making a scene.
It's a smart idea to discuss your goals, reasons for your actions, and desired outcomes. Anything from sexual pleasure to a closer relationship is possible.
The best time to talk about your fantasies for the BDSM scene, both in the Dome and Sub positions, is now. It's important that you're both on the same stage when it comes to feeling pleasure and understanding what arouses you.
Create a safe word: Before any kind of BDSM play, it's important that you establish a safe word that you both remember and can use if something goes wrong. It's best if the safe word is easy to remember and is something you won't say randomly during sexual activity, like "No," "Don't," or "Stop."
For each word you can choose a color code (green, yellow and red)
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Green - indicates that everything is okay.
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Yellow - use it when you are doing well with the activities but need to slow down.
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Red - use it when you want to stop the activity.
You can also choose nonverbal communication if your partner cannot express themselves. Some of the nonverbal communication choices are:
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Snapping your fingers
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Dropping an object
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Touching an object, etc.
Be aware that some things may not go as planned:
Things don't usually go that way, even though you may want to arrange every little detail and pray that nothing goes wrong. And that's perfectly fine!
It doesn't have to spoil the scenario, so just go with it if things get tied up or you screw something up. Also, some of the things you had planned may not go as well as you had hoped. Keep going with what's working now, pay attention to it, and make adjustments next time.
3.How do you plan a scene for BDSM?
It's time to plan the scene, and there are three phrases for any BDSM scene that you need to know:
Before: choose the ideal setting for your BDSM scene and then prepare it for the action. If you're just starting out, it's fantastic to set the scene in your bedroom, or if a hotel is part of your fantasy, you can book a room. Setting the scene is crucial. So, think about what activities you will do in your submarine and have all the necessary utensils ready.
Regulate the temperature of the room by raising or lowering it according to your preferences. Also, turn on some candles so that you can easily get hot wax for your partner if you want to experiment with the temperature of the scenario, and ask him to take a shower and get ready the way you want. Don't forget to get dressed and shower yourself. Also, prepare for the scene as you would for a date!
While: the BDSM scene is all about you bonding with your partner, having fun, and having an enjoyable time!
It's best to forget about the outside world when you're in the middle of the scene, disconnect from your usual relationship dynamics and surrender to pleasure. Every Dome is different, so you decide if you're going to get loud and give commands often, or if the scene is going to be more quiet and non-verbal. Don't be shy and let your imagination guide you, do all the activities that turn you and your partner on.
Talk to your partner, adjust and get back into the swing of things if you feel like it, and finish the scene, just at a different pace.
After: After the scene is over, remove the restraints and it's time for aftercare.
It's important to really relax and take care of yourself and your partner during this time, because BDSM can leave you with unpleasant feelings, even if everything is safe and consensual.
Take a shower, drink some tea or coffee, put some cream on the places that are sore after the scene. Spend some time cuddling with your partner and talking about your feelings and experiences during the scene, what you liked and what you didn't.
4.3 Common BDSM Scene Ideas：
Here are three scenarios that are ideal for beginners if you are looking for spicy scene ideas for your next BDSM play session.
Role Play:
By far the most common BDSM scenario is role play. By choosing to take on multiple roles, you can create fantastically different power relationships. Perhaps you can switch roles so that one of you is a student and the other is a librarian.
Everyone can choose a role-play scenario that suits their preferences, because there are so many different ones.
Orgasm Denial:
Denying your partner sexual climax is a common BDSM activity. Either that, or you tease him but never let him finish. Or you don't let them orgasm until you've already had three orgasms yourself.
This doesn't require a lot of creative thinking and can be a nice and easy approach to start with BDSM.
It doesn't have to be sexual all the time:
Sexual activity is not required for BDSM. The exchange of mental power is all that matters sometimes.
You can either force your partner to clean the house while they are dressed absurdly, or you can make them wear an absurd outfit as well.
Many people find this appealing, and if you don't want sexual acts, it doesn't have to be.
