BDSM bed restraints

What are bed restraints?

Bed restraints are also known as sub-mattress restraints. These are bondage restraints designed for sexual role play and bed bondage, where one partner is the dominant one and ties his submissive to the bed to dominate her sexually.

They usually consist of straps in the shape of an X with D-rings at their ends, to which leather bondage cuffs are attached. The straps are adjustable to fit any bed size. They are tools that spread your sub's limbs and legs to restrict his movements while you do your naughty deeds.

The entire system runs between your slatted frame and mattress, with the straps extending around the mattress to rest on the bed. Drilling into walls or permanent attachments are not required.

How to use bed restraints？

There are several ways you can use bed restraints during BDSM play. Here are the most common methods.

• Tied Ankles And Wrists To Top.

The most classic bed restraint position, where you tie your lover's wrists and ankles to the bed while they lie face up, is very vulnerable and can be a massive turn on for your partner. It's also an excellent position for foreplay and teasing, as your partner can see you teasing him, but he won't be able to do anything about it.

• Tie Ankles And Wrists Down

In this position, your partner lies face down on the mattress with both wrists and ankles tied. This position is incredibly submissive, as your lover will not see what is going on behind him. You can enjoy spanking or whipping your partner with a spanking paddle or trying out anal games while they are tied down on the bed.

• Fastened ankles

The position with ankle restraints is excellent if you want your partners to be spread wide open. This position is also ideal if your partner is uncomfortable being fully restrained because their hands are free.

Having your partner's hands free allows him to touch you while his legs remain tethered, so you can do whatever you want with his lower half. If men are restrained, a face-up position is ideal for both foreplay and sex. If women are restrained, face up is great for foreplay and face down is easier for intercourse.

• Hand cuffs

If you enjoy having your partner wrap his legs around you or bend his knees during sex, you may prefer the handcuffed position where his hands remain cuffed so he can't touch you, while at the same time you can adjust the lower position halfway to make sex more pleasurable. If you like, you can start with your lover's wrists and ankles cuffed for foreplay, and then release his feet when it's time to get dirty.

Some tips on bed restraints：

Before using bed restraints, always discuss your boundaries and expectations with your partner before getting involved.

• Create your safe words

Before you put your partner in his sex bed restraints, the first thing you should do is to create safety words. Usually in BDSM, the word "red" means stop, the word "yellow" means slow down, and the word "green" means keep going. However, you and your partner can choose any words that work for you.

• Talk About Your Expectations

You and your partner should thoroughly discuss what you expect and hope to get out of the bed-fixing encounter. Feel free to go over the scenario in detail, such as what positions you'd like to try, how many limbs you'd like to have tied up, and so on.

• Discuss your limits

Once you and your partner have discussed what you want from the encounter, you should discuss things that make you uncomfortable. For example, if your partner is claustrophobic and afraid of being held down while lying face down on the bed, they should let you know that this position is off limits.

Even if your partner gives you permission to try a certain position while being restrained, you should still go slowly. Pay attention to their body language and watch for their slowing down and stopping signals.

• Setting up your restraint

Once you have your under-bed restraint, you can start measuring your bed. Then, adjust your straps to match the width. Once your main connection strap is in place, you can connect the four restraint straps. Of course, you can omit the straps if you only want to restrain either your wrists or ankles, but not both. You run the straps across the top of your mattress, then connect the cuffs. When it is time to engage in BDSM play, the person being tied will lie in place and stretch out to be tied.

Before you start, please make sure that the fixed partner moves and tests the fixation. It is so important that they are safe and comfortable.

Utimi BDSM Sex Bed Set 2022：

• Easy installation: the bondage set can be fixed at an oblique angle directly to the mattress without opening the mattress, which is more clear and by one person.

• Suitable for different specifications of mattresses: The strap has an adjustable design, which is suitable for 1.5 to 2.2 meters mattress, as long as your mattress is within the range.

• Multiple play options: Angled straps * 2 pieces, thin webbing * 2 pieces, handcuffs * 2 pieces, footcuffs * 2 pieces, punches * 1 piece, can be freely combined and combined, so you can create more options.

• Humanized design: the bottom of the bias strap is non-slip to prevent falling. It is matched with a silver buckle to unlock more sex positions.

• Environmental protection material: the bondage set is made of high quality polyester, which is wear-resistant, non-toxic, odorless and can be used with confidence.