How to Safely Stretch Your Anus for Anal Play？

Anal sex is an act that engages penetration of the ass. Just like other muscles in your sexual organs, the sphincter of the ass is adapted to flex so far. If you need to relax, a lot of work is needed. Anal lolling gives pleasure for starters. This is because this magic hole is full of sensitive nerve endings that enable anal play to feel good. This fun is not for facets with prostates alone, but any person can enjoy it. It is proved that close to 25% of gay men enjoy orgasms from anal sex only.

So, how do you safely do all this?

One of the best ways of stretching this very precious hole is to train it routinely. A great way is to exercise, practicing, and loll your ass with the use of dildos, Anal plug-ins, and expandable Dildos. Anal lolling skills boost your pleasure and improve your getting-in skills which facilitates the anus elasticity. The lolling skills also assist you to prevent and lower the risks of future damage to your ass.  

What can you use?

For a beginner, it is good to practice with the use of fingers, especially the pinky. After, you can try up to five fingers or the whole hand or fist. Better still you can use sex toys:

• Dilator

This area is also known as rectal dilators. They are medical devices that are used to widen the rectum after anorectal surgery to aid in easier passing of the poop. Dilators can be found online specifically for pleasure. They have a basic shape that is smooth and tube-like. You can buy them in sets of five or more. Each of them increases about a quarter of an inch in size to enable you to work in the most comfortable way possible.

• Plug

The butt plug has an efficient shape that you will love. They are made of slender tips that gently widen close to the center and then narrow down again. They have a friendly shape that enables easy insertion and holds them comfortably in the anus even in the passion of ecstasy. The flared bottom limits them from getting swallowed in, preventing any accidents. They are made of different lengths and widths varying from small for anal training amateurs to some good intimating plugs for seasoned advantages. They can also be bought online.

• Lifelike dildo

This is for cock lovers. It is a sex toy that resembles the actual thing. They are made up of all lengths and girths so you can work your way up as you like.

• Fantasy dildo

Fantasy dildos have a very pretty shape that is not very attractive to put in your butts such as dragons, aliens, unicorns, and a magical hammer that is energized by the God of Thunder.

What size should you start with?

Starting small is recommended as no one has ever been pronounced a hero by starting big and tearing themselves. Starting small is paramount for the first foray. If you consider fingers, the pinky is the best, to begin with. If you consider the use of toys, 0.25 inches to 0.5 inches diameter is a good size.

How often should you train?

How many times to train depends on the level of your comfortability. But a good start should be at least one or two times a day. Five days a week and for a period of 5 to 10 minutes, a session is good enough. Train for one to two weeks before stepping into the other stage. If there is no discomfort during insertion, then, you are good to go to the next size up.

Is Bleeding After Anal Sex Cause for Concern? Is it normal?

Bleeding after anal sex such as spotting will resolve quickly. This should not cause any concern. It is not normal if there is a lot of blood and bleeding continues for more than some minutes and pain experiences, consult a doctor. This could be an underlying condition or an injury. Light pink blood that lasts for more than two days calls for a doctor consultation.  

Why does it happen?

Bleeding happens if there is a tear that can be caused by friction, roughness, or cuts from fingernails if fingers are being used.

Most common causes:

• Anal tears (fissures)

A tear during penetration on the sensitive tissue inside the rectal canal can happen. This is caused by friction or fingernails. Anal fissures can lead to pain during bowel movements that are accompanied by bleeding.

• Dilated veins (internal or external hemorrhoids)

These are swollen blood vessels. It is not easy to detect them until they burst during anal sex. The force and friction from fingers, a sex toy, or a penis may tear these veins. Hemorrhoids can also bring pain.

• Anal warts (condylomata)

Anal warts are caused by sexually transmitted infections. They are seen inside and around the anus area and are small in size. They are not painful but they can be itchy. They may also bleed if there is friction during anal sex.

• Acute or chronic constipation

Constipation can cause strain on the muscles of the rectum. During pushing to poop, hemorrhoids or tears can develop. This may cause pain and bleeding after anal penetration.  

• Anal herpes

These are sores or blisters around the ass. They are caused by the herpes simplex virus which is a type of sexually transmitted infection. They are red bumps or white blisters that can bleed upon irritation. They can also bring pain and itchiness.

What can you do to find relief?

Minor bleeding after anal sex can be relieved by sitting in a warm birth that has salt for about 10 to 20 minutes. Do this on daily basis till the end of the symptoms.

Application of an analgesic agent that can be bought over the counter to treat minor rectal bleeding. This could range from creams, ointments, or suppositories for numbing and pain reduction in the anal area.

In addition, a stool softener is also good to ease bowel movements. This reduces force on the delicate tissues and reduction of further bleeding. The softeners are available over the counter as oral pills or rectal suppositories. Taking a lot of water when you are on stool softeners is recommended.

Eating food with high fiber relieves constipation and eases bowel movements. Eat foods such as fresh fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.

What can you do to reduce your risk of future bleeding?

 To reduce bleeding risks in the future, the following is recommended:

• Start slow, either by use of a tongue or a finger.

• Use lubes in plenty. This is because the rectum is not self-lubricating. Lubes reduce friction that causes tearing and bleeding. Lubes should be used for the toys, penis, or fingers. If friction reoccurs, keep on applying.

• Trimming of fingernails that are sharp, long, or pointy.

• Use of soft, flexible dildo. Silicone-made sex toys are the best.

• Practice the facedown position that makes penetration easy and reduces anal pressure.

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